Another great dare. This one focuses on my ability to recognize Kendra's dreams and put an action plan together to reach them. Unlike some of the other dares I see this one as very fun. How well do I know Kendra? Well I can certainly articulate her very biggest dreams. I know that she wants to travel and see the world. I know that she wants to visit USANA's Sanoviv this year. I also know that she is so very passionate about taking her vision of health and freedom to as many people as will listen. She had a dream where I would join her in that pursuit, one that I refused to complete until very recently. She looked at me two nights ago and told me that her dream for USANA has come true....her and I working together for a common goal and helping those around us in big ways. No resistence from me, no underlying desire to have her time all to myself. Yes, I've been able to assist her in her dream to reach Gold and she has shown such gratefulness towards me that I'm dreaming of her going Diamond and above. In the personal realm my wife has dreamed of taking a trip with her sisters to the East Coast. This is one dream that I'm going to step into an action plan and tell her to finalize the dates and purchase tickets. I'll lovingly let her know that I will take the kids and have a great time while she is away. Not only that I will commit to planning a December visit to Sanoviv with Kendra. She longs for this trip and wants so desperately to know what is causing her some of her ailments. I want it for her and we've talked so much about it, now I want to put it on the schedule and go along with her for the ride. We both have dreams of hosting Klemmer events and staffing all the various seminars. My wife really wants our children to complete "playful mastery" and I'm committed to this goal as well.
I can say that I have listened more to my wife and her dreams since June of 08 than all our 9 years in marriage before that. I get her passion and she is irresistable when her core beliefs about health and peoples ability to make good choices come together. I'm no longer interested in only completing my desires in life, but I get that when I help her create her dreams I'm completing mine as well. I want her to be joyful and experience true purpose. I'm feeling her wins and wanting her to grow even stronger and go higher. I've changed my perspective to fully embrace how powerful a person she is and I love her dearly. I'm in tears right now thinking about her...what a blessed person I am. I love you Kendra. Dream Big and Play Big.
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