Day 22

Today's dare was to tell Kendra that I love her unconditionally. No matter how she responds to me and regardless of the circumstances I'll chose to love her. Honestly I don't feel this dare is difficult. Where I'm at right now is a place where I value her so much that I truly do love her even when I'm being a butt. Most often I'm moody and not interested in meeting her needs, so I still love her but don' t choose to show it. She feels this as indifference to her plight, but for me its a selfish act. I'd love to love her more wholly and will choose to show her this love when I get discouraged or frustrated. One way I can do this is to choose kind words instead of getting angery or saying things that only hurt her. My mind tells me that I should be aware of the negativity that comes out, but my actions tell me to go forth quickly. Having the strength to admit that I'm in the wrong and letting myself be allowed to let Kendra see my weak will be a great way to express my love to her. Instead of making things difficult and pulling away from her I can chose in the moment to show her love by hugging her and showing her affection. That way she will understand that I chose to love her unconditionally by my actions and by my words.