Day 32--Sexual Needs

Hmmm...let me first say that I loved yesterday. Was able to relate with Kendra in a relaxed way with no need to rush. Having the option to have someone take our kids for awhile has been a true blessing. I've been told often by Kendra that she wishes the Chad who shows up in bed would show up everywhere. Something about the act of sex really brings out my tender side and truly its all about her. I'm not satisfied unless she's satisfied. I look forward to creating the intimacy through sex because it is a tangible way that I can meet her needs. I do enjoy the high myself, but I'm disappointed when I don't satisfy her. Yesterday it was about meeting her needs and desires. I was able to initiate sex with her at a time that usually doesn't work for us. We were able to take our time, enjoy each others presence, create an atmosphere of safety and love. I asked her specifically what her needs were in the area of sex and we confirmed our preferences and likes. I already know quite a bit about how her body works and she mine. As a matter of fact, we have tried in the past a 30 day sex challenge. We made it 9 days. That was an interesting experience. Kendra and I have a very open relationship and I can admit when I have sexual desires and she can do likewise. It doesn't mean we'll always get what we want, but we are free to let ourselves be known. This hasn't always been the case, but I truly love the kind of communication we have foster in our relationship. And I truly love making love to my wife. What a great combo. I've decided that I will complete love dare 32 whenever possible....as long as it is focused on creating intimacy in our relationship or just plain having fun! Thank you God for the creation of the sexual act. For me it is a great way to relate to Kendra how much I love her and how I long to fulfill her needs.